RIP
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
As much as we all hate the part, to part, we all go through it.
And sometimes its just too much it overwhelms you.
My bestfriend's dad passed away.
And sometimes, I wonder why do things like these happen to sucha nice guy?
He's an awesome person he is.
And the fact that dear mum of just passed on 2 years ago, it cuts like crazy to think how he's gona deal with life now.
With a younger sister barely 16 and an elder sis who's living/studying abroad the numerous thoughts that was passing through his mind since scares me.
But he smiles,jokes and even laughs and it calms me down, but I know that after the smile dies down the problem runs in.
Then is when I realise, his assets are his friends.
All his friends who are there for him, are there for him as much as his relatives or actually even more.
Like how everyone who has Sam is somehow gifted.
Cause regardless of where she is she'll help, she'll do however much she can.
And so, her mum who's a lawyer will be helping him with however ways she can.
And I feel so warm knowing there are real genuine nice people around.
My mum is more than willing to cook for Oswind,his sisters and his other relatives when he needs my mum to.
Even Vik's mum is doing that tonight.
I feel glad.
But I still have got this naggy feeling in me.
I really don't know how to put it down in words.
But the Uncle's face is still fresh in my head.
With his eyes open. :(
I just know I'll feel much better after Oswind settles all his current pressing issues.
But one by one boy, you'll do it. We are all here with you.
I've always wanted to know his sister, and its through this incident I'm getting to know the younger one.
And she's sucha nice girl I totally adore her.
And besides that, I realised how much Oswind friends are willing to do for him.
From Chandra !! To Mash!! To Ramp!
Awesome people, too awesome friends.
My eldest sis and I were discussing about how everything is being orchestrated for us by the one above, and at the same time, he should know there's so much he can test and take from one.
So show me will you?
That this boy and his sisters will have a bright ease life.
As I've mentioned before, Oswind's asset are his friends.
I really mean that.
And I realise how much some people will go through to be there for Oswind.
Like Sam who'll do all it takes even if she's in another country.
Like how Tnesh will do all he can to get a Gate pass to attend the Funeral.
Like how Viknesh will also do the same.
And these people are eventually the friends you need.
Cause some won't even try.
And I was this close to meeting the dad, because he wanted a friend of Oswind who knew how to blog. :(
I'm done.
Om Nama Shivaya.
Rest in peace Uncle.
Bless Oswind and his Sisters Shiva.
I know you will.